m a r r i a g e

the moment when you're thinking about yourself while your best friends generally got married and most of them have one or even two children..and you're still stick around with your single mingle happy sexy and free and like you never get any pressure of being single..
uhm sorry..
i have my opinion about this..
because i always think the marriage isn't just a thing or just an event..

yes i am agree that the marriage is the human's way for celebrating the love..
the way of making your affection legal..
the way of showing how deep your seriousness in relationship..
and of course,the marriage is the big decision to your future..
many points that you should think well before you say "yes,i'll be married"

yes,married is important..
but the most important thing on marriage is your mental..
and uhm should i write "the financial stable" too?
ah yes absolutely i should..

many people said that "marriage is not only about love..
love is indeed important for your marriage..
but after all the time..
love can disappear..
love can go down..lack..fail..minus..reduce..
and the thing which strength the marriage just the commitment and the responsibility"

so when the commitment and the responsibility go far away..
what should we do?
some people choose to disappear from this issues..why?
when the first you went into marriage..
you take all the possibilities for being together..
and why do you have many reasons for being separated?

so where does the love go?
where does the passion leave you?
where does the commitment which toughen you?
where does the responsibility that preserve you?